They Put World Problems in Perspective
Successful people know that they cannot control world leaders and the
decisions that governments make. They focus on what they can do to
improve things in their specific niches. Environmental issues are huge,
and yet the CEO who is focused on developing solar energy stays focused
on his/her piece of improving things, not the larger pessimistic issues
that are a part of the news every day.
How are you meeting these challenges? Can you take them on? You don’t
have to be the next Bill Gates, but you can adopt these approaches to
the challenges that we all face and conquer them in the same ways.
There Is No Past or Future
Successful people do not dwell in the past, and that is a huge
challenge for most of us. We tend to ruminate about our past mistakes
and failures and we then fail to focus on the “now.” Or we worry about
an uncertain future and allow fear to keep us from taking the risks that
will result in success.
Successful people live in the “now,” wiping the negative past out of
their minds and embracing the fact that they cannot predict with
certainty what the future holds. Steve Jobs could have allowed his poor
prognosis of cancer to stop him. He did not. He continued to lead Apple,
staying in the “now” at all times.
Fear is a Motivator
Successful people meet fear head-on.
They know that if they can “smash” through it, they will emerge better
and more energized. Malala Yousafzei met fear head-on and was almost
killed. Look how she has emerged – a Nobel Prize winner and an
international leader for women’s rights and peace around the world.
Ghandi and Martin Luther King met fear head-on as well. They changed
entire nations. When we allow fear to block us from moving forward, we
become stuck – no successful person ever allows himself/herself to
become stuck.
Toxic People Are Eliminated
Successful people hang out with successful people who have the
“success mindset.” These people have emotional intelligence, goals,
positive energy, and are supportive of new ideas.
Psychological research states that we all tend to take on the
demeanors and personality traits of the people with whom we associate –
it’s sort of a “group think” phenomenon. If we continue to remain in
circles of negative, pessimistic, people without goals, this is exactly
who we become. Eliminating toxic people from our lives can be painful.
Oprah Winfrey had to do this, and by any measure, she is one of the most
successful women on the planet.
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